Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Embrace the waves

Well, I did it.

I got my hair cut.

My mom won a gift certificate at a fancy salon in Williamsville, and gave it to me. I thought the gal at the front desk was going to die when she saw me and my ponytail walk through the door. I wasn't nearly as beautiful as the Beautiful People generally walking around the place. I've been dreading this, which is why I hadn't done it. I have no idea how to deal with my new wavy hair (even if new is now several years), except to let it grow so heavy it weighs itself down, then pull it back. This, I admit, is not an answer, but it's worked so far, even if it isn't too attractive.

I brought a few photos with me. One was from several years ago, with my shoulder-length bob. That was my, "If all else fails, this wouldn't be horrible." shot.

A second was from just after my hair started growing in wavy. It's a terrible photo of me, but it shows what happens when my hair is let loose now. I look like I went swimming with a hairdryer. That was my, "Please do not make me look like this." shot.

The third was a short bob-like haircut that I thought my new wavy hair might manage. That was my, "Gee, might this work?" shot.

I'm glad I brought all of them. The person stuck cutting my hair first thought I could do Locks of Love, but I needed to cut off 11" of hair. That wasn't an option. The girl cutting my hair didn't believe how much wave I had until after she washed my hair, and after she started cutting. She thanked me for insisting she blunt cut it, and said I would have had a head full of curls had she not.

Can you believe it?

My hair is now chin length again. I feel about five pounds lighter. I lost about 7"- 8". She swore that if I round-brushed my hair dry, I'd get a "fairly straight" look out of the cut. I have yet to see if this is true. Then she offered to show my how to go with the wave, mentioning that if I did that, I wouldn't have to do anything in the morning except put goo in it (ahem, I mean, "product") and scrunch it with my fingers. Sounded tempting, so I let her.

John thinks I look like a flapper. That's more flattering than what I thought, but I appreciate the support. "Go with the wave" translates to a head full on curls. It's a bit hard to get used to. It's bouncy. I've got it back in a head-band today, and it's not terrible. I don't deal with change well.

Meanwhile, I starting to feel light-deprived. Not depressed, I'm just getting this "mothy feeling"; I want to hover around light bulbs. I was so close to crawling under one of the lamps shades while reading last night John said I was about to singe my hair.

Good point, I can't imagine that would help any.

7 Comments:

At 12:36 PM EST, Blogger twinmama said...

Wavy hair, huh? That sounds beautiful! Did your hair change after pregnancy? My girlfriend used to have ringlets, and four kids later she went straight, then back to semi-curly (her hair changed every time.) So weird, isn't it? Anyhoo, the haircut sounds fabulous. And we are also feeling light-deprived around here! Daylight Savings is just so. . . sudden and drastic. I think I could handle it much better if we just lost a minute or two per evening. The boys have been in shock, too, at how dark it gets before dinner. Well, good luck with the new look!

 
At 4:01 PM EST, Blogger Caleb G. said...

So Kris, you can't write that kind of post without including a photo :) That's just wrong.

 
At 8:31 AM EST, Blogger kris said...

I'll work on the photo. I'm working with the hair . . . I can get the front to lay down a bit, but the back is so short it just always looks uncombed. I suppose the word should be "sassy."

Sorry, it's uncombed. :D

It'll be better when it grows out a bit.

Sabrina- I make sure all might lights in my main room are the brightest white I can get, and have white lamp shades. (Right now I don't, we have hand-me-down lamps I can't find white shades for, but I'll have to do something soon.) I don't flood the whole house, but just the main room I sit in. It makes a HUGE difference to me, even if they aren't full spec bulbs. Halogen works best for me, but it's hard to find now.

 
At 11:19 AM EST, Blogger Kareemsa said...

I too demand a photo! I've been gathering courage to get my hair cut too. Why is it so hard? I've been wanting to do the locks of love cut since the Spring. My hair is down to my waist- too long.

 
At 8:55 PM EST, Blogger Jenn said...

PICTURE, PICTURE, PICTURE!! You can't write that kind of post without a picture!

 
At 11:01 PM EST, Blogger Jenn said...

Karen, I just had a friend do locks of love and did you know if you contact them you can donate your hair in a specific persons name. Look on line too, my friend did a few searches and found some other reputable charities that could get the hair to the people a little faster than locks of love and they would give you names and profiles of little girls who could use the hair. That's a great idea! You could really help some little girl.

 
At 9:29 AM EST, Blogger kris said...

Hey-

I've got my hair fairly straight . . . I think I need goo to let it curl again without getting frizzy. We should have photos, regardless, by the end of the weekend.

Karen- the gal at the salon said she needed 11" to do Locks of Love, but I saw on Oprah that there was another organization that only needed 9" . . . although it sounds like you have 11", with a few to spare.

 

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