Monday, November 28, 2005

Extra Prayers

Hey friends, I could use some extra prayers sent my way this week. For the 8th year I am directing the play at the school I worked at and the shows are this Wednesday & Thursday night. The final rehearsal is today, dress reheasal tomorrow and then 2 shows makes for a busy week ahead. That added to trying to still be a mom and wife, being 2 1/2 weeks from my due date and coming down with a stomach bug this weekend has drained every last ounce of strength and patience and turned me horribly emotional. If you think about it, could you keep me in prayer for strength and grace....and a quick delivery this weekend would be a wonderful bonus (he's looking like he's gonna be a big one). Thanks friends.

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Pixar Online

Hi everyone! I was on the itunes site just now. John and I have been buying our music there (no CDs to bring home), but I rarely check the site. Anyways, I noticed that you can buy Pixar shorts now- all of them, from Red's Dream all the way through to the newest ones! They're $1.99 each. Thought you might want to know.

Monday, November 21, 2005

Amsterdam


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Originally uploaded by danishsprite.
Thursday morning we were up bright and early (actually, dark and early) to get to the airport bus in order to make it to our flight to Amsterdam. The flight in was bumpy. I was not feeling all that great when we landed, but the wooziness disapated quickly. By the time we got to our hostel, it was about 4 pm.

A quick note about hostels. We've been staying in International Hostels with great luck. We usually get a private room, so we have our own bath, or share with one other room. It's kinda like renting a dorm room for an night. You get wooden framed beds and table. Usually breakfast is included. We don't need frills like internet service, a tv, or a phone. Cheap hotels don't always offer much more, and we've found them to be scary and dirty. Hostels work out great.

We deceided that we had just about enough time before closing to hike it over to the Heineken Experience, a brewery-turned beer-themed amusement park. We went on one ride that took us on the journey from an empty bottle to a bottle of Heineken (kinda like a high-tech Picture-Picutre), and a second that made it look like we were in the driver's seat behind the Heineken horses trotting around Amsterdam. The tour ended up with .75 liters of free samples each (Pepsi for me) and a souvenir glass for each of us. It was good cheesy fun after a day of traveling.

We ate well in Amsterdam. Thanks to the early Dutch explorers, Indonesian food is popular fare, and we ate Indonesian twice, with relish. (gusto, that is) Our third dinner consisted of stampot (mashed potatoes, carrots, and onions with sasauge, for John) and pork tenderloin (for me). It was great to go out to dinner at a reasonable price. We did have pancakes for lunch one day (cheese, bacon and tomato for me, cheese, bacon and ginger for John), with cocoa, so we didn't miss out there, either.

The museums were great. I really, really enjoyed the Van Gogh museum and the Rijksmuseum, which had a great collection of the Dutch Masters. The colors in Van Gogh's work never seems to reproduce well, and Rembrant's attention to detail is more impressive up close and personal. Amsterdam was a good stop for art.

In between the museums and food, John and I walked the city, several times over. We crissed-crossed town, exploring the side streets, and took a canal cruise. To be perfectly honest, Amsterdam is not my favorite city. Perhaps it was because the weather was dreary, perhaps the great quantity of construction interfeared with my ability to enjoy it. While it had a historical flavor, it is a very much lived in city. I preferred the gothic feeling of Prague, or the museum-like qualities of Venice or Stockhom's Old Town. It may not be practical, but there you go.

The Red Light district was interesting, only because it felt much like the rest of the city, but with partially naked women in the windows (most looked combative, or incredibly bored. John claims one was knitting), and more coffee shops. We didn't pass through too late, maybe we should have gone at night.

While wandering John and I ran into the Mother of All Art Supply Stores. This was heavy duty stuff- you could even buy the ground pigments to mix your own paints. I picked up a set of soft pastels (good ones), which can't be found in Denmark. (Danes claim pastels are too toxic. I know they are, but the way I look at I've already inhaled so much pastel dust in life one more box ain't gonna kill me.) Incedentially, they triggered the security system on the way back home. Apparently the guards couldn't see through the packaging. Since the box was still shrink wrapped, they let it through.

I've become used to the traffic in Århus, which carefully separates pedestrians from bikes and cars. In Amsterdam it's everyone for him- or herself, with bikes on the sidewalk and cars in the bike lane. Bike bells sound out from everywhere, and I can't tell you how many close-calls we saw between bikes and cars. Jaywalking is often the only way to cross the street. It made for hectic sight seeing.

We picked an interesting weekend to visit. The Dutch traditionally celebrate Sinter Claus's arrival at the end of November. Traditionally, Sinter Claus is the bishop from Spain, who arrives for a long visit with his helper, Black Peter (usually portrayed as a Dutchman in blackface). At the end of their visit, December 5 or 6, children leave their shoes out at night and Sinter Claus stops by and leaves them a gift if they're good. If they've been bad, Black Peter is supposed to toss them in a sack and take them back to Spain.

While the idea of 'Black Peter' bothers some, we read that recent attempts to change him to 'Blue Peter' or "Green Peter' haven't quite made an impact (because they're downright silly, in my opinion), and some people are re-tooling Peter as the fellow who carries Sinter Claus's gifts in a bag (which makes him more like servant). In any event, Amsterdam was decorated for Christmas last weekend, and many stores had black dolls dressed in tights and a feathered berret hefting bags in their windows. Some stores were using a caracture of a black-faced gingerbread looking thing as their version of Black Peter, making me wonder if some folks think turning him into a fantasy character, instead of any type of human, might solve the race issue. On the way back to the airport, John and I saw Dutchmen in blackface rapelling down a few of the taller buildings downtown . . . apparently Peter and the Big Guy had just arrived.

Until last weekend I didn't know that the Amsterdam flag is red with a black horizontal swatch, with three white x's placed across it. That just cracked me up.

We arrived home last night, glad for the trip, but bracing for our next challenge: The Move Across Town. We have ten days. We just found out that we can move in on the 30th after 5 pm, so we will not be homeless for one night as we feared. Once everything is packed I'll start shuttling things across town to John's office so we can move in that night. It should all work out.

Saturday, November 19, 2005

Anna Blabber

Just wanted to write and say that Anna has actually begun to blabber occaisionally! This is not just consonant-vowell stuff like LA LA LA this is strings of different consonant-vowell combinations! Even her tones are different. It's actually quite shocking! We're just thrilled. It really is the natural progression for language and we've been so frustrated about her speech abilities lately. We often now can't tell who's making what noises!

We took a nice walk with the kids today. We went to a nature center run by the Audubon Society. It's on an old plot of farm land near the Presumpscot River Estuary. We walked about a half mile on the nature trails. Jane was in the Bjorn with Karen and Anna was in a backpack carrier with me. It was a nice late fall day, sunny but cool. The leaves are pretty much gone here and it wasn't the greatest season for color. But the girls seemed to like it nontheless!

Kris tell John to hang in there and we hope that cast comes off soon. I actually just had a friend at work get hit by a car while riding his bike. He's got a fractured ankle... and a lawyer! I'm glad you've got Olivia back! I hope you have fun with her.

Matt G. can you see the light at the end of the tunnell? God speed as you get ready to gradumatate! Also we checked out ENGRISH.com tonight and laughed ourselves silly!

Goodnight!

Nate

Monday, November 14, 2005

Silly Boys


Silly Boys
Originally uploaded by davemayp.
I say, here's fun:
i've got a shiny sixpence for the lad who can add a funny caption here...!

jayden is in the back, and corban is up front.

Corban, Mr. Smiles


Corban, Mr. Smiles
Originally uploaded by davemayp.
Corban was all smiley yesterday-- and we caught it on film!

"This is the job that never ends . . ."


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Originally uploaded by danishsprite.
I got a "big suprise" on Saturday afternoon. Olivia's mom called, and they've decided to make plans to stay in Århus through January. Their previous plan to move to Scotland just wasn't coming together. At the last minute, her dad's contract in Århus was extended on for two months, and her mom was offered a temporary job for the same amount of time.

While part of me would very much like to see Olivia in preschool, I know that even if I turned the job down she would just end up with another babysitter. So, I accepted. We make an excellent team. John and I will be moving December first to an apartmetn five mintues walk from Olivia's, which will make it easy to travel between homes.

My challenge (and I've already accepted it) is to find us things to do for the month of December and January. I refuse to spend two months rotting in a wet sandbox with a disgruntled child.

December shouldn't be too hard. While Olivia's parents have a different way of celebrating Christmas (no religion, no Santa). Last year I had a hard time figuring out how to handle the holiday with her.

I know the family better now. I plan to be a cookie-baking, tree decoration-creating, downtown lights-and-decorations-observing whirlwind, and dragging Oilvia with me. She likes that kind of stuff, it will round out the dark, wet days on the playgrounds.

I've already contacted the Århus American Women's group, and I'm hoping that there will be a three or four year-old child we can meet up with at the playground. The trick at this point is to find another child she can talk to, in any of her languages. Wish me luck on my search.

In any case, I get Olivia back for two months! I'm excited.

Sunday, November 13, 2005

Wallace & Gromit

So here's my recommendation: Only see W&G if you don't have little kids with you. It was very enjoyable, except when some "bad" parts arrived. Caleb said he wanted to leave, and then subsequently started crying. We made a bee-line for the nearest exit. Tonight, he's having bad dreams as I write, and Jenn is out sleeping on the sofa by his door.

You don't have to worry about me spoiling the ending for you; I don't know what it is either. Just be warned.

Friday, November 11, 2005

Emily's birthday and other photos


Emily's Birthday at El Rey 11
Originally uploaded by mgenovese.
I've posted two new sets of photos - one from Halloween (a tad late, sorry), and one from Emily's first birthday this past Monday.

Thursday, November 10, 2005

OUCH!

John just called a bit ago . . . they took the cast off at the ER, and performed an x-ray on his arm. Turns out the bone is still fractured.

He's back in a cast. Four more weeks, then we'll see.

He is NOT a happy camper, but at least he was able to wash his arm before they re-covered it.

John's cast

John gets his cast off today. He called yesterday to get an appointment, and they claimed it could have come off last week. They were supposed to call us, but apparently couldn't get through (or leave a messege). Oh, well. John just left for the ER. He can't wait to scratch that arm!

This works out well. Next week this time we'll be on a plane to Amsterdam. In two weeks, we should be waking up to our first morning in our new apartment. John should be more comfortable now for the first event, and be able to help more with the second.

Sunday, November 06, 2005

Time

Kris I checked out the Carmelites web site. Wow it really is beautiful in it's design. And I thought that perhaps, not being raised in a Catholic tradition, I wouldn't connect with the ideas expressed within it. But I found that I was impacted by the SCHOOL OF PRAYER lesson on TIME. You see I've just come down from a period of intense work both physical and mental. This past week was LOOOOONG! I had a huge wedding to deliver, a shed to paint and a family to take care of. I was sooo busy.... How many times have I said that? I seem to be saying it more and more. I often wonder if there's enough time in the day for everything I "want" to do. Time for God? Time for prayer? Maybe at the beginning of the day and maybe at the end, but in the middle? I'd have to say no.

When you feel that you have the least amount of time to pray, realize that is probably when you have the greatest need to pray.

Yes that is true. Prayer, along with reading God's word, is probably the single most important thing.... that I've neglected.

At least God doesn't give up on us. I know his word and his promises are sure. He'll never leave us nor forsake us. I just wish I could stop saying "I've been so busy lately...."

Friday, November 04, 2005

On the Move

There was a PhD defense at the University today, in John's department. In Denmark, a PhD student gives his presentation, and then two different 'opponents', experts in the field, are given the floor to quiz the student on his or her project for a given amount of time. The student did well, passed with flying colors, and they're all still back at the University partying.

One of the opponents was from U of R. He came here for a few days with his wife. It was great fun to show them around Århus, and talk about Dibella's subs and Wegmans. Would youbelievee they've been active in refugee resettlement in Rochester, and are on the mailing list with Journey's End? (where I last worked) They have friends at Spiritus, too! We all really hit it off. I'm actually sad to see them go.

It looks as though John could quite possibly get a post-doc at U of R. I was just about ready to jump out of my chair and scream, "We'll take it!" However, John and I both felt that this fellow was encouraging him to look at other Universities as well- he mentioned opportunities at several otheruniversitiess (Harvard, MIT, and Penn State, in particular), and I guess the guys will keep in touch.

It's good to know that there is one option open- and in Rochester, too! I'm hoping that this gives John the encouragement to get going in contacting the other possibilities. I'll keep you posted on the progress.

Pray The News

I found a website this morning that I'd like to pass on. It's www.praythenews.com, and is the site for a group of Camelite Sisters in Indianapolis, IN. First off, the design is wonderful. (That is always sure to get my attention.) Secondly, they offer a very nice window into their daily lives, and themselves as individuals and Sisters. These are real wome, with full, active (if cloistered) lives. There is also a nice history of their monestary and Carmelite Rule as well.

However, I really liked their School of Prayer, and thought you guys might be interested as well. They have a nice section guiding their internet visitors on a series of mediatations concerning God's Gift of Time. (I think the topic may change from time to time.) The focus is on working towards mindfullness, in daily life as well as prayer.

One quote I appreciated was, "Try to see God in the interruptions of a day." It was a lesson I learned while at Journey's End. The "official" design work I was doing what was not important, it was being there for the people I'd promised to serve- that is, the refugees themselves. They had many other great ideas towards a more peaceful day.

Enjoy!

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

a sunday afternoon..


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Originally uploaded by davemayp.
hello from twin-land!
some new pictures on flickr..

Happy Halloween!

We watched The Great Pumpkin last night (on DVD). That was the extent of the festivities here- they don't celebrate Halloween in Denmark.

Heather, I loved the photos! Thanks for sharing . . . looks like a great afternoon. All of these holidays are just more fun if there are kids around.